LoverBoy
06-13-2009, 09:07 AM
Let me just say as a ex-strip club goer. Their nothing wrong with going to a strip club with the intentions of just having plain fun.
Now, some of the girls will do tricks (sexual favors) for extra cash (that I do know).
The girl jumping on his lap is normal behavior of strippers. They all do that. That's their job. They provide the fantasy and you provide the money. Is a give and take situation.
They push lap dances because that's how they make most of their money. Please understand this.
But is ok innocent fun as long as you both are into it. If one party disagrees (most likely the girl) then is NOT ok. Respect each other and your love and trust will grow stronger.
Now, some of the girls will do tricks (sexual favors) for extra cash (that I do know).
The girl jumping on his lap is normal behavior of strippers. They all do that. That's their job. They provide the fantasy and you provide the money. Is a give and take situation.
They push lap dances because that's how they make most of their money. Please understand this.
But is ok innocent fun as long as you both are into it. If one party disagrees (most likely the girl) then is NOT ok. Respect each other and your love and trust will grow stronger.